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Saturday, August 28, 2010

Is that a Boy?...wait no...a girl...wait....

Readers,

Back in the days, i had a huge fear of transexuals. I know i know...it was being estuped. But some people just are. I always had a fear, i dont know what it was, it wasn't intentional it was just fckn there. i was like "what is you doing?" "can u like hide yo penis in a bikini?" i was tons of ignorant. Until i took this one class about gays and life or wat not. Then this woman was coming to speak about her change from a man to a woman. I was having a Fucking Panic Attack! no fckn joke! my palms were sweaty! my heart was rippin through my chest. it was like "give this fcker an oscar for his performance!"
after a while, she came in, and let me start by saying that some people completely know how to pull it off without knowing that they are a girl or not...but with her, you could kind of tell she was born a boy. Well anyway, after a while my fear began going away. I dont wanna sound like a complete douche lord but i had an epiphany and i was like "oh shit! they are just human beings" but u know it takes a while for someone to understand wat they didnt know.
and jst recently i had a BBQ nd one of my dads friends nieces is a trans. But now i have no problem with it whatsoever. Its no big deal to me know. Like who cares, people around me were a little ignorant nd laughin about it or making comments. But i didnt pay attention to it. WHO CARES!
Now some people might start saying "ARE YOU THINKIN ABOUT TRANSFORMING?" NO FUCKER! im jst tryin to explain my enlightenment! im saying that i go around claiming that i try my best, cuz we all do it to some extent, no judge anyone without really knowin them! nd gettin ovr my fear of transexuals was my last step to that.
Nd now i have some pretty good friends who are in that process. Nd i couldn't be more proud nd kind of admirable towards them! They have the biggest balls to go AGAINST SOCIETY and the typical norm. To go through all that trouble of losing friends and family to be happy with themselves! They couldn't have my biggest support. Nd now i have no problem with it. IF it wasn't for that class idk wat the hell i would have done. i would have still been an IGNORANT MECSEECAN! lol

REMEMBER LIVE LAUGH AND LOVE YOURSELF!

jaime

Friday, August 27, 2010

Don't Wait Hand and Foot! Give the Fucker a Boot!

Reader,
What happens when you have to wait for your significant other but they are miles away?
Dont be a pendeja and wait! no! that's only if the other one isn't puttin their two cents in! if you're here and they're there living the life? why wait? but if you truly truly loved one another you'd do everything in ur damn power to make it work. But it doesn't always work. so wat do u do? give the fucker a boot. Yes it'll hurt and yes it's going to be hard. But who ever said it was going to be easy?! Especially if your young. You have a whole life ahead of you. no one should ever wait for another when the other isn't waiting for you.

remeber LIVE LAUGH and LOVE YOURSELF

Jaime

Go Ahead...Start loving Yourself.

Readers,
People have asked me. "How do you do it?" "What made you lose so much weight?"
well to tell u the truth...i wasnt happy with myself. I was a complete FATASS! i mean...seriously! i had blood pressure...i really wasn't the best person to look at! I started college! GO BRUINS! The biggest i ever was, was 285lbs! No joke! Now im about 200lbs...that about 85 Pounds GONE! without the Lap Band, Gastric Bypass, Dieting, Starving or Crack...well maybe a little...Juuuust kidding. But seriously all i had to do was hit the GYM nd Eat Differently...slowly drop the SODA nd replace with Water. Start going for the the healthier stuff...do little changes! DO NOT try to completely change the way u eat! It will NOT work! Instead of going for that extra slice of pepperoni pizza go for the vegetarian pizza. Eat more soups nd salads...THIS IS JUST WAT I DID! nd the biggest thing to do is BE PATIENT! dont expect to be 30lbs lighter at the end of the week! The more u begin loving yourself the more you'll tell yourself when u look in the mirror. "DAMN! YOU LOOKING LIKE A FINE ASS! U SEXY!" nd don't worry so much about ur weight! just worry about extending ur life span!

Just remember LIVE LAUGH AND LOVE YOURSELF!

Jaime